Monday, October 06, 2008

The Party is At Happy Hijabi's!

If you like marriage-quest type blogs, then check out Happy Hijabi's blog!

She's been updating it frequently and the content gets better by the day. Plus, it looks like she's moved on and been meeting many potential Mr. Rights. I think she's engaged now.

I'm so happy for her! This is awesome.

Inna ma3al 3usri usra!

16 comments:

A Happy Hijabi said...
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Anonymous said...

That's very sweet Quest.
and congrats Happy Hijabi!

Anonymous said...

I can't believe you missed Happy Hijabi!!

Mad Muslima said...

lol she is definitely in the limelight...

inshallah yujad yusra ma3 kel 3usra!

Quest said...

Missed her? Um...no. I'm just happy she found a man and forgot about me.

A Happy Hijabi said...

Well Geez, you dont have to be mean about it! I dont want you back, but I did miss you just the tiniest bit.


Thanks for everyone being happy for me, but you don't really know the whole story just yet. So keep your eyes out for my posts.

And Plus, I dont want to be in the limelight, that's bad for the humble ego, and the eyes.

dontwanttobe hurt this time said...

From Hijabi's blog, it seems that you give great advice. I have a dilemma at hand and want your help. I got transfered to different location for my post. There I have met this wonderful muslim guy. By the word, "met" I mean, I have noticed that he's muslim by reading his first name on his name tag. He seems like a great guy and I want to get to know him for marriage purposes. On few different occasions, he has also acknowledged my presence. either by making direct eye contact or greeting me directly. It seems that he still remembers me from the last time when he visited my local branch.

He has the permanent full time posting whereas mine is still temporary. Now, how can I extend my hand for halal relationship without getting it caught in the haram stuff?

S said...

to dontwanttobe hurt...
How about you pray istikhara?
or maybe ask someone about him who you and he might know in common. Never know how different he might actually be from the impression you are currently getting.
Hope that helps

Anonymous said...

Thank you S: I have prayed that prayer few times now. We don't have mutual friends whom I can ask about his character. and if I ask the staff members about him, it will be obvious that I am interested in him and most definitely I don't want to leave that impression. After stalking him on net, I found out some qualities in him which are quite questionable, but I don't want to judge him as of yet without giving him a fair chance to explain those qualities. Because in the past, I have made such error of jumping to quick conclusions and I dont want to commit the same error this time again..

dontwanttobehurt said...

For those who care, now, he's dropping hints and apparently he's also interested. I am too reluctant to respond back? What could I be afraid of? Once, I waited for this chance, now I don't wanna go ahead? Is it even normal for experience this type of anxiousness?

SisterJ said...

Chillout sis, what you're experiencing is all normal stuff. What you must remember is thatif you weren't interested in someone - you would not experience this anxiety, and you would not ask "should I? should I not?". Example: your friend calls you on your phone. You pick up. You have a conversation. Easy right? You must try to apply the same relaxed behaviour to this situation and not panic. The anxiety will only make you change your natural behaviour - and assist in giving the wrong impression. Chill, be cool, and everything should work out., Just do whatit is that you want to do, and dont worry.

Anonymous said...

Salam Quest,
I think its about time you gave your faithful readers some input. Hope everything is good with you.

A Happy Hijabi said...

Hey Sorry I haven't been blogging for a while been caught up with the real world and work has been running my life in the most amazing way possible.

Anonymous said...

whoh geez louize where am I? Assalamu alaikum brothers and sisters and quest and happy hijabi and everyone. Feels like i've landed in some venus-mars muslim mix.

Just a few days ago I sort of discovered something that people talk about alot. I think they call it bonding.

I decided I want to get married and ... b...o...n....d with my husband.

tata.
A.

Anonymous said...

oh and if you'd want to talk about this thing called bonding email me: abena111@hotmail.com

Anonymous said...

salaams quest,

please update us..

btw: it's don'twanttobehurt. For those who are still curious, things didn't work between 'us'. He made several attempts to approach me, and every time I shy'd away. Finally, when I decided to give him a chance, there was a situational mess. I call it play of the naseeb. :(
insha'Allah, Khair.